Q- Is it true.It is often reported from romantics across social websites the following hadeeth (often with a touching pic) :“When a husband and wife look at each other with love, Allah looks at both with Mercy” ഭാര്യാഭർത്താക്കന്മാർ പരസ്പരം സ്നേഹത്തോടെ നോക്കുമ്പോൾ അള്ളാഹു കാരുണ്യത്തോടെയാണ് നോക്കുന്നത്?
Sayyiduna Abu Sa’id Al Khudri (radiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “When a man looks at his wife and she looks at him, Allah Ta’ala casts his glance of mercy on both of them and when the husband takes hold of her hand then their sins fall away from between their fingers”.(At Tadwin Fi Akhbari Qazwin of ‘Allamah Rafi’i, vol. 2 pg. 47)
There is a narrator in the above hadith who has been declared by many Muhaddithun as a liar and fabricator. This Hadith is therefore not suitable to be quoted. (See Lisanul Mizan, vol. 2 pg. 181)
A recent Moroccan scholar, Shaykh Ahmad Siddiq Al Ghumari (rahimahullah) has classified the narration in question as baseless and a fabrication (baatilun Mawdu’). (Al Mudawi, vol. 2 pg. 388)
And Allah Ta’ala knows best
3 links below
https://hadithanswers.com/virtue-of-the-spouses-looking-at-each-other-with-affection/
https://mawdu.wordpress.com/2013/03/16/allah-looks-at-both-spouses-with-mercy-love-in-islam/
https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/love-good-character-and-mercy-between-spouses/